Video of woman lying on mother's tiled grave breaks hearts: "I miss her"

• Love Ngajiro is still grieving her mother, as she lies on her grave while struggling to come to terms with the painful loss of a parent
• She shared a video of the moment, showing she was not afraid to sleep on her mother’s resting place while responding to fans’ questions
• Social media users were deeply moved and flocked to the comment section to share similar experiences of grieving their loved ones

There are many ways people cope with grief, depending on various factors surrounding the loss, and no two experiences are the same.

A woman has shared several videos online showing how she is dealing with the painful loss of a close family member.

Love Ngajiro shows her mum’s tiled grave

Facebook user Love Ngajiro lost her mother and, despite putting on a brave face, she continues to hurt from the devastating loss.

In one video, she responded to fans who asked whether she was afraid of lying on her mother’s grave.

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“They asked me, ‘My love, aren’t you afraid to sleep on a grave?’ I replied, ‘Can you be afraid of your mother?’” read the caption on the clip.

In the video, Ngajiro was seen lying on her mother’s tiled grave, with her sling bag next to her and her sandals placed on the steps.

Love Ngajiro advises bereaved

She appeared calm and comfortable on her mother’s resting place, admiring her nails as the wind gently blew through her hair and dress.

Another grave was visible beside her mother’s, suggesting that she was buried in a well-maintained cemetery.

In a separate video, Ngajiro was seen cultivating around her mother’s grave, demonstrating her continued love and care for the environment where her mother was laid to rest.

She encouraged the bereaved not to forget their departed loved ones, urging them to honour their memory through acts such as maintaining their graves.

Speaking to Njeri Ndaru, a psychologist, she noted that people grieve differently and that there was no timeline for one to overcome loss.

“A person who has lost a parent would grieve for longer than one who has lost a cousin, for instance or a friend. In other instances, it depends on the connection one had with the deceased because the deeper the bond, the more the hurt and probably the more time required to heal. There are also other factors like when they lost someone because a child who lost a mother would grieve differently from a grown up,” she told NgGossips.

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Netizens react to Love Ngajiro’s video

Her actions sparked mixed reactions online, with social media users sharing heartfelt messages in the comment section.

Fridah Nalisi:

“We are no longer afraid of our departed family members because they live in our hearts. We can only pray to God to continue guiding us as we carry on with our lives, for death comes to us all in its own time.”

Jenny Watison Mtagwa:

“I wish my mother had been buried in an accessible place so I could visit her every week and call out to her, just as I did when she was alive. I miss her deeply.”

Fridah Omuchukuyu:

“Whenever I visit home, I sleep at my father’s grave. Now I will have to sleep at both graves since my mother also passed away a month ago. It feels comforting yet so sad. I miss them deeply.”

Princess Mssa:

“My mother used to ask whether we would fear her if she died. To this day, I am not afraid of her grave. Whenever I go home, I visit her resting place before entering the house.”

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Joyce Nyatichi:

“When I am at home, the most comfortable place I find to rest is on or beside my mum’s grave. I remember the endless stories we shared. There is no better place than my mum’s grave.”

Woman cleans her mother’s tiled grave

In another story, a woman shared a video of herself cleaning her mother’s beautifully tiled grave, sparking mixed reactions online.

Schollah demonstrated her enduring love and respect for her parents by washing their graves in a touching video.

The young lady used clean water to wash her father’s grave as she responded to fans’ questions about her parents.

Source: NgGossips