- A Nigerian lady has gone viral after writing an open letter to Sandra Chinelo Areh urging her to stop waiting for Apostle Joshua Selman to choose her.
- She accused the Apostle of publicly showcasing Selwoman yearly without commitment and advised her to set an April deadline for marriage talks or move on.
- The writer stressed that age is not “just a number” and warned Selwoman against wasting time on an indecisive partner.
A Nigerian lady has penned a viral open letter to a woman identified as “Sandra Chinelo Areh or Selwoman,” urging her to leave Apostle Joshua Selman and prioritize getting married, citing concerns over the passage of time and the woman’s public relationship status.
The author, who claimed she only learned of “Selwoman” recently, expressed shame over the circumstances of their public dynamic, stating she was addressing her “as a woman and as a realist.”
She criticized the public display surrounding the woman’s relationship with the Apostle, alleging it happens yearly:
“Like every year, you allow an able bodied man wealthy enough to marry you to publicly advertise you as an item on the shelf he never really picks.”
The author was blunt about the Apostle’s perceived indecision, suggesting it is a clear sign:
“Men are never indecisive. If he is not choosing you and you actually want to be chosen, leave him and go get your life together.”
The writer set a clear deadline for the woman to move on, warning her against wasting time:
“Give that man from now till April and if he is not coming to see your parents, move forward.”
The author dismissed the idea that age is irrelevant, warning the woman about the biological reality of time:
“Age is not just a number but We love to deceive ourselves. Even your Selman is aging… E go soon clear for your eye when you start doing follicle count.”
