- Nigerian music legend 2Baba’s younger brother, Charles Idibia, has publicly criticized his girlfriend Natasha in a strong open letter.
- In a podcast episode, the music icon stated that a man is not naturally suited to sexually engage with only one woman.
- 2baba apologized on Instagram for a mistake, expressing deep regret to his wife Natasha, fans, and children, stating that this is not who he is.
Charles Idibia, the younger brother of Nigerian music legend 2Baba, has publicly criticized the singer’s girlfriend, Natasha, in a strongly worded open letter.
This comes after 2Baba sparked controversy on Nedu’s podcast by stating that men are not built to be sexually committed to just one woman, though they can love one deeply. He later apologized in a video shared on Instagram, expressing regret and publicly saying “I messed up.” He apologized to his wife, Natasha, his fans, and his children.
Reacting to the apology, Charles claimed in a lengthy post that his brother has been manipulated and silenced by Natasha, whom he described as a toxic influence. He accused her of forcing 2Baba to retract his comments simply because she wasn’t mentioned in the podcast.
According to Charles, Natasha is not a girlfriend but a “psychotic fan and cancerous leech,” who is slowly destroying 2Baba’s legacy under the guise of love. He urged his brother to wake up and reclaim his voice and identity for the sake of his children and career.
Charles Idibia wrote;
“To my dear @official2baba, my …, There are not enough words in English to express how much I love you, so I won’t even try. To the Gentle, kind, loving, peaceful being, to the guy who would not intentionally hurt a fly, who would take losses in several businesses just to avoid any form of confrontations, who makes sure everyone around is comfortable even thou he is not alright, who gets mute, and watches himself being painted as the bad guy just to protect thesame person painting him as the bad guy. To the guy who i would dare to describe as the modern day Jesus Christ from nigeria, because of how innocent and pure your heart is, but you will also be crucified by religious standards, to the most insánely talented musician that has ever graced my ears …I beg you today, to ‘WAKE UP!
It can never be a crime to save yourself, to move on from where you were almost losing your life and soul, but you haven’t moved on, you have been captured, captured from inside the frying pan to an industrial furnace …so my heart bleeds.
It’s one thing for a girlfriend to snoop in your phone and read messages out of curiosity or for other relationship reasons ( it can even come off as cute ), but a girlfriend who breaks into your phone to announce your divorce , because she had doubts about you going through with it , who posts and deletes a picture of herself on your socials and ask Nigerians to help you beg her to marry her while you sleep , who clones your what’sapp , deletes messages she doesn’t like and replies messages pretending to be you to steam roll her agendas ,a control freak inside your emails and your accounts , who convinces you to abandon your management and businesses in Lagos and move to Abuja , just to become her arm candy and dragged all over Benin and to places the real you will definitely not go , who would make you defend lies and tolerate chaos , who would sabotage your business trips, …who would do a whole lot of rubbish ( I will not mention here out of shame )and hide under your name, who would adopt your Surname , tell strangers , and whoever cares to listen,that she is your wife while you are still legally married”.
“A girlfriend who makes you eat your words from a podcast just because you didn’t mention her name she would have liked, is not a girlfriend but a psychotic fan,…a cancerous leech who has come to slowly but steadily destroy you and your legacy, all in the name of love. You are in one of the episodes of those ‘Crime and Investigation/ Love Passion & Murder’ you love to watch, and the victim at the end of the story is going to be you. How haven’t you realized this?. You are currently living in bondage.
Today being 2-7-2025, I beg you, bro, take a couple of months off ALONE, get completely off social media and let the music and businesses wait. Give yourself time to heal and reflect, and really focus on what’s important at this stage of your life. I beg you to do this, in the name of whatever you still hold dear, in the names of your 7 lovely kids, they would love to grow up with a healthy and happy father in future. You are a great chess player, you know when it’s time to step away from the chess board and evaluate the game from an outside perspective, this is that time, before it gets too late …a time to become the real you again,…. this isn’t you”.
