Jarvis emotionally shared that her boyfriend, Peller, often wakes her up at night to cook for him, leaving her mentally and physically drained
She admitted that she feels obligated to take care of Peller because if anything goes wrong, people would blame her
She said with visible frustration. “Imagine, I would sleep before him, and Peller would wake me to go cook for him. He is hungry. Do you know how annoying that is?” “Please talk to him, because if we are married, I will change it for him.”
Jarvis made it clear that her actions were not necessarily out of love, but more out of pressure and a sense of responsibility placed on her.
She added, “It is not love, it is because I have to take care of him. Because if anything happens to him, they will ask me.
‘ According to her, Peller has grown too comfortable in their relationship, taking her efforts for granted.
She noted that he no longer steps into the kitchen, and food always magically finds its way to wherever he is.
She said, “He is too comfortable now. Everything is set. He doesn’t go to the kitchen. The food gets to him where he is. It is not beautiful, it is stressful.”
Netizens urged her to stand up for herself and set boundaries, while others criticised her for allowing the behaviour
See some of the comments below:
@perrysignature2 wrote: “I think two of una are too young to live together for now, your family needs to call you to order.”
@jewellery_genie01 stated: “Na from girlfriend level dem dey do changing oh. Ah ah, you were not informed?”
@thekweeenmelissa said: “You are too young for all this. When the time comes, you go tire.”
@hosluxury.ng added: “If you no change am now, na inside marriage you wan change am ni?”
@southside_goddess joked: “Na to report two of una give Igwe. Dem go soon summon una for market square because una own don too much.”
